The Three Different People in Life and the WHY Path – Learn How to Create Meaningful Habits and Goals
Have you ever stopped to think about why people do what they do? We all have our reasons—some are straightforward, like eating when we’re hungry or paying bills to keep the lights on. But then there are the bigger life decisions that aren’t so black and white. Why do some people stay in jobs they hate, while others seem to have a clear path toward their goals?
In this article, we’ll explore the three types of people you’ll find in life and why choosing the WHY path can lead you to a more meaningful, fulfilling life. Whether you’re looking for self-improvement, inspiration for the new year, or just a clearer sense of purpose, understanding these categories can help guide you toward making intentional, purpose-driven choices.
1. The Drifters
Let’s start with the largest group—those who drift through life without a clear sense of direction. These are the people who might have decent jobs, a stable lifestyle, and some surface-level goals, like wanting a nice house or a reliable car. However, when you dig deeper, they haven’t truly identified what makes them happy or fulfilled.
If you were to ask a drifter, “Where do you see yourself in five years?” chances are you’d get a blank stare or a vague answer. They often live in the present moment, avoiding big decisions or commitments, simply going with the flow. They may set New Year’s resolutions like losing weight or cutting back on spending, but those goals rarely turn into meaningful change.
2. The Stuck Seekers
This group knows that something is missing. They feel dissatisfied with their current situation and have a desire to discover their true purpose. However, they’re caught in the middle—searching for that sense of fulfillment but unsure where to start. They might jump from one thing to another, hoping to find the right fit that will finally bring meaning.
While this is a step up from drifting, it can feel overwhelming and frustrating. They might attend workshops, read countless self-help books, or try different career paths, but without a solid WHY statement, they often rely on chance to guide them toward happiness.
Takeaway: If you’re feeling stuck, take a moment to reflect on what truly lights you up. What activities make you lose track of time? What conversations leave you feeling energized? Start there.
3. The Purpose-Driven
The smallest group—and the most inspiring—are those who have found their true purpose. These individuals know their WHY. They are driven by a deeper sense of meaning and work towards clear, intentional goals every day. Whether it’s in their career, personal life, or relationships, everything they do aligns with their values and passions.
They aren’t just living for the weekend or waiting for things to “get better.” They actively pursue what excites them, even when faced with challenges. These are the people who inspire others, make a difference, and create a life that’s fulfilling beyond measure.
Why You Need to Choose the WHY Path
So, where do you fit in?
- Drifter,
- seeker,
- or purpose-driven?
While we can all relate to elements of each category, choosing the WHY path is the key to a life that feels deeply fulfilling.
When you connect with your true why, you stop feeling like you’re just floating through life. You start setting meaningful goals that align with your values, and each step forward brings clarity and purpose. You’re no longer relying on luck or hoping for a breakthrough—you’re actively creating it.
Think about a time when you had a gut feeling about something—maybe it was leaving a job or pursuing a new hobby. That feeling? That’s often linked to your WHY. It’s a sign that you’re stepping closer to your true purpose.
How to Get Started:
If you’re ready to take that next step, How to Find Your Why: Unlock Your Inner Purpose and Create a Life of Meaning by Bob Pardue is a great guide to help you uncover your true purpose. This book offers actionable steps, personal stories, and insights designed to empower you on your journey.
Remember, choosing the WHY path isn’t about having all the answers right away—it’s about taking intentional steps toward a life that aligns with who you are. So, take that first step today. You’ve got this!